The opinion of him about what may happen during the time is different. you will be changed to something better and less unpleasant. 2 .- Say you’re right, that is correct. If you have an excuse show it as a simple cause but not as a reason to relieve them of guilt (that would be fatal because it would be saying that no criterion). People such as Governor Cuomo would likely agree. Show yourself and be very worthy, but to convey is, make sure that what he does is right, who is observing what to do. With this the police will have a closer connection with you and begin to see it as an ally, not as a contender, will think that you are a discerning, reasoning, which is also self-critical, fair and impartial because it accepts the punishment.

Note that you begin to be worthy of forgiveness. 3 .- pass on that respect to the matters of transit, he is the authority and therefore make it feel that you do not reprove their actions. This is vital because it should not blackmail. Always be honest. It is not “because I find you on condition that you forgive me.” That would be fatal. What you are doing is giving something that we all love, power. With all this he has done, you have given power to do what I should do, no fuss.

But also you have given the power to forgive and I assure you I will pursue. We all like to forgive because we feel powerful (in a good way). And it’s nice when we say “thank you very much.” My personal experience most notable occurred on All Saints when my wife accompany their parents to visit relatives. Virtually arrival at the destination disk I skipped around the corner stop and I stopped a policeman on a motorcycle. I requested the documents and warns me that does not respect the hard “stop.” I admitted my mistake immediately, and while he still was looking at my documents, I told him was available. However the disc to stop was not all: “well your documents are due seven months ago,” he said with a tone of anger and disappointment. I really did not know and told him, but not to feel it was an excuse. “Would have to take custody” he said. At that time my wife tells me loving attitude (performing the policeman listen) “do not worry about the car, I’ll call my brother to come get it and bring us to my parents.” Her parents had already declined because we were near the vehicle and walked toward the house of their relatives. I think it was our general willingness that made the police begin to say “Look sir, I’m from the south of Osorno. We, the motorcycle cops who walk in are only for this: to the parties for violations and is a very thankless job. ” At that moment I knew I was going to let go. Told him I knew Osorno and shared her impressions of the type work developed. l wanted to talk to someone and it did me because I was kind. Because I feel that will surely played a role. He continued “…. Well look, here are their documents. If you do not mention to another officer that I stopped him. Go fast, renew your license and be more careful. ” I thanked him for having saved a hard time and I went to park in another sector.