The family is the adjusted place to arrest what she means donation. Many think that donation means to give something; but it is not this! Donation implies in donating itself, in exactly giving itself in leaving itself and going to the meeting of the other, in renouncing our egoism. The necessary human being to be educated to donate itself. If the family is not promoting this education, something is missed. Therefore, to educate is to humanizar, not to animalize and also is not to become the person a reliable machine of functions. The man who on behalf of one ‘ ‘ liberdade’ ‘ he leaves yourself to lead for the hedonism is a crossbow (either animalesca, either tecnicista), and not a person, therefore he transforms the world and the others into objects of its satisfaction. The true man must know that he does not have freedom without responsibility but to know, to know this principle and lives deeply needs it to learn, needs to be educated and of this he consists the great mission of the family and the school, that is, to form and not to deform.