A desire to quit smoking or drinking, constantly spending time in the companies where they drink and smoke – not very realistic. A friend of mine who knowingly went back to drink, when I saw that the time that he had used for this case have to be used for anything else. If you do not like your hard work with long hours, and you want to start a business, get away from it – you need to prepare for that in the near future you will relax even less, and work even bolshe. get something new without abandoning the old. That's why if you really want to achieve their goals, you need to learn to give up on what is almost anything for their achievement. 4: The desire to get "all at once." It would seem – that's good.

But in reality it is the desire to get "all at once" is often destroys all your chances of success. A person who wants everything to make a perfect, self condemns himself to frustration and a feeling of defeat. This, in turn, reduces his chances to finish the job. Suppose you decide to go to the gym 3 times a week. If you want to do everything exceptionally ideal, then missing a couple of times a class, can so upset that throw the whole idea. In this case, if you were not so rigid idealist, then quietly went to class, despite the retreat from the original plan.

Better communicated to the end is not the ideal case, what started and abandoned the ideal. Ultimately, it is better to continue and to try than give up and abandon their dreams. In the real world usually have to wait and persevere. Therefore, seeking "all at once" more likely to receive "anything and continuously." If you are ambitious desires, be prepared if necessary to wait as long as necessary. 5: Lack of clear and precise long-term goals. Except errors listed above, many commit another – the greatest. And on it they often do not even know it. They simply begin to act ", without defining clear and precise long-term goal toward which they want to come. As a result, either do not move forward, or come not at all to what they wanted. Go to the top has many roads, but an expensive can lead to a set of vertices. Having a specific goal, a person would not knowingly makes a lot of things that lead to getting the results you want! Without a precise and clear goals, you get unexpected results. Therefore, the most important – to identify their target before the general take on anything without the explicit, clear and specific purposes, all your dreams off the ground would be a waste of time.